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Oneace
Looks like you have plenty of advice in the marriage area so I will not give you mine from 19 years of marriage. I will give you this though. This will be hard and maybe long but read it.
Dont listen to just one doctor or even two. Pshc's, sometimes are even worse. My father, a retired narcotics dective is now gone. 11 years ago the docs told him he needed xanax. Now for the rest of the story...
This man was a ball to be around, great guy but did not trust people he did not know (from his job I think). He would get tense around others so the doctor decided to take his life from him and give controll of it to his bottle of xanax. (Your med is the same)
Oneace... This is the perfect drug for company's and doctors to get rich on. The more you take... the more you need to feel the same... The longer your on it... the longer it takes to "ween" off it. These meds feed themselves... like a parasite in your body. I have seen this first hand but by the time I knew what was going on it was too late. He had slowly increased his meds just to feel "normal" then he got divorced again and anouther phyc put him on paxil also!!! This was his undoing! the last 2 years of his life he was living in his anxiety med bottles. Watching the clock instead of hitting golf balls.
This man went from being a towering image to a dependant old man before it should of happened. I took his meds from him in the hospital so he could not self medicate himself while also getting what the hospital was giving him... That is when I realized how bad he was. We were peeling him off the walls, clock watching in the room with never turning on the tv just waiting for the next time the meds were to be passed out and screaming if they were late!!!! Oneace ... this in a nightmare get off it now!!!
he could not leave his house without a few in his pocket,
the doctors just precribed MORE to ease the symptoms. By the time (5 months ago) I stepped in and told the doctors that the jig was up? He was already admitting to his addiction to it but could not controll it and would lie without batting an eye. My wife is a nurse, she would testify to everything I have said. I could go on and on but wont. I am talking about my best friend who was father who has passed recently.
If you really need help do it with out meds!!!! Oneace.. do a quick search on these meds and read all the posts from people addicted to them and how they beg for help getting off. Oneace,,, your smallest problem will soon be your wife!!! And you will lose her for sure if you stay on these meds. There are options other than meds for your stress and condition, pursue them!
If you want the whole story and facts I can provide them e-mail me, for I have lived in the horror story your about to enter. I would not preach this on the board ebarressing my fathers name if I did not feel so strongly about this. yes some people NEED these meds. YOU ONEACE do not. you hold down a job, 12 hours a day??? You dont NEED these pills. They may help you thru these troubled times but soon you will have more problems than you ever would imagine!!!!
Take care buddy, take a big breath and post here often when you get stressed dont feel like you cant talk to us
for I am an &sshole also. Even my wife says that from time to time.
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Like lamarbur, I do not claim to be a doc. nor a profesional in anyway shape or form. I am just a guy who took care of a loved one that had serious issues with these meds. I agree that some people NEED these drugs. The unfortunate problem of this society is that too many people that need "other forms" of controll are put on life altering drugs. It sounds like you need to take care of yourself first and formost. Do not stop trying to find other ways to controll your outbursts. You are 24? It sounds like you have held down this job well? I have a hard time understanding that you could stay employed for any length of time at a place and have violent outbursts?
I cant comment anymore on this, Its still very hard for me to talk about experiances with my father. Please dont listen to much of what I say for I am not a professional. I will end with a few words of advice for I have been around this block a few times myself.
You are 24, you really have alot of life experiances to experiance before you may understand what I am saying.
A few rules to follow as close to as you can.
1. Dont drink a drop of alchol. Quit!!!! Your Mood
swings will increase dramatically when intoxicated.
2. Search out all forms of NON precriptive ways to
controll yourself.
3. Do not think you need to stay on pills to stay
married. Your young, you have no kids with her
you have your life you need to take care of.
Here is a saying my dad used to tell me all the time when I was your age and younger. This is coming from a cop who had seen alot already in his life.
"I see more young men DEAD or killed over a woman. I have to send one man to jail for the rest of his life and one man is 6 foot under, while within the month, the lady who this all happened over is screwing anouther guy"
He would follow up with something like, "if she is causing you that much pain in your life you need to step back and take care of yourself and your health first.
Good luck buddy I wish the best for you!
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